Sunday, May 15, 2005

The Problem with Lists

Kristin and I are "list" people. To-do lists, library book lists, grocery lists, all work out very fine for us--but church lists are another matter. As we prepare to move again, we're trying to change and that means not listing out what we're looking for in a church.

It's supposed to be the military that always fights the last war, but we're just as likely to dwell too much on that church we were in before. "Oh how we loved how they did [insert something like weekly communion, small groups, etc]", and so that goes on our list of "must-haves" for the next church. But when we find a church that matches our list, they do it all "wrong." And we end up being too contrary.

Maybe a list for what you want in a church is about as dumb as a list for what you want in a spouse. There are too many variables that can't be quantified and qualified accurately. There are tacit elements that can't be written down.

Lists are out, but I'm not sure what goes in their place...a dart board?

We are little lambs who don't know which way to go. Savior, like a shepherd lead us.

2 comments:

Melene said...

Tim, I believe you answered your own question with the last sentence of this post. Finding a new church when moving many times can be a chore, but prayer and patience and listening for God's voice to lead has always worked for us. Others praying for you helps, too! Joe and I will be happy to do that for you. When do you actual move out there?

Tim said...

We head out 14 June--getting close!